Other Places Make Me Feel Like A Dork

Got back from my NYC trip yesterday and it was a really good time. The guy "NYC" is still a little mystery to me and that is intriguing. He has the whole geek-chic-quiet-a little dirty-short temper but not violent-I'm a little uncomfortable-no eye contact-sly smile and adorable look to him. He was at his best on Sunday all day and that made me like him even more. He was a great host, tour guide and wonderful at so many other things. He looked like I thought he would and I did not mind at all standing on my toes to speak to him or look at him in the eyes. I would post of pic of him but he would like that too much so I posted one that is not him taken out one night in NYC after this posting. I will see him again :)

No matter where you go and who you are we are all looking to belong and make connections with people--that is why I believe sex is what destroys our community as it is too easy to get and easily disposable. I have always said that picking up isn't a problem but a relationship is. That is what I noticed in NYC. One of the the "greastest" cities in the world but the feeling I got when being out within the gay bars is the same that I feel in London, Toronto, Las Vegas, Montreal and other cities that I have visited---people just to want to belong and find that person to connect with. This is when I believe great friendships are important because they help feel a void of not having that "special" person in your life and makes life a little less lonely. At the end of it all when viagra barely works, you want someone there that makes you laugh, listens to your same stories and who loves you unconditionally without judging of all the things that you have done and accepts you for who you are.