You know when you meet someone and you don't really expect much and then you realize that you really like this person. That your gut is not telling you that he talks about himself too much or that he always turns the conversation about himself or that he's pretentious or just can't keep or maintain a conversation---basically that it is over before it began. I'm learning to follow my gut's reactions because I know I should and it always is right. Whether I deny it or try to put it aside, at the end of it all---you know what you need to do. When you do it is a different story but I'm learning---nip it in the bud before you get emotionally attached or you get into it too deep.
I met someone unexpectedly the other day and within 30 hours, I already knew his deepest secrets and most of his "problems", his aspirations, his goals, his frustrations and his regrets. I am an easy person to talk to but he was completely shocked when he realize that he had told me things that he only a very few knew and he even people that he had dated in the past. After finding this out, the gut was telling me---you like him and it doesn't matter because he's a good guy. During one of our many conversations, he tells me that only one "red flag" is up. That made me laugh as that is my expressions and shouldn't my flags be up and not his? Nevertheless, he's on my mind and the gut says--that is good.
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