Typical and Shocking

I reached out to the EX last Friday and basically just said in an email that it would be nice if we can open the lines of communications between us.  I don't and can't take him back but I'd like to communicate with him in some form or another.  However, 4 days later and no response.  My best friend said it best when he said---At least you are trying.  I agree with that but it just makes me think that perhaps he doesn't care for me and does not really give me another thought and maybe never really did care--sad really after 3 years of us being together.

THIS IS HUGE.  I got massively hit on yesterday at the gym  This guy is hot and even the EX agreed with me that this guy is mother hot.  I won't go into details but my gym is 99% straight and I hadn't seen this guy in about 4 months---right before the break up with the EX and let's just say that I was SHOCKED---SHOCKED when I was in the steam room alone and he walked in and sat down way too close to me and whipped off his towel and ...........!!  Let's just say that I behaved really well and we are at the gym and that last thing I need is to be thrown out of the gym.  All to say that this guy literally shocked me with his come on.