Absolutely No Regrets

I put an end (for now) to the new guy this morning.  The reason being the same one that I thought about a while ago about him being to busy and all the crap going on with his job.  He is too busy and like I've said before---I don't want to be THE priority in his life but A priority would be nice and he can't give me that right now.  No fault to him or me but that is just the way things are for the moment.  Maybe once his life gets more stability we can see what can happen but now isn't the time.

I'm OK with it---I really am!

What I realized--even MORE NOW--is that I need to follow my gut.  My gut told me to quit the EX (a year before I broke up with him) but I held on (for better or worse--who knows) just to get my heart, spirit and self-esteem trampled on more in the end.  My gut told me with the new guy that maybe this isn't the right time to start this and I held on because he and I said we would try.  My gut was right and now I did what I should have done about a month ago.  

You live -- You learn